Bullshit. Both Sweden and Finland have "NATO-compatible" militaries and took part in many NATO exercises over the years.
Don't even try to pretend NATO isn't a major profit center for the American military-industrial complex. That is the only reason for its funding and existence in lieu of actual diplomacy and sane foreign policy.
Any money for their militaries will have to come out of their own budgets, just like before. NATO doesn't have any coffers for "recipients of funding".
No wonder you're opinions are so warped; you just don't know what the fuck you're talking about.