It is disruptive to have pronoun activists such as yourself wandering in and derailing the conversation.
Please find a more useful hobby than this worthless language policing.
What's more disrupting, my one little comment, or you bickering with me about it? it's not language policing, it's treating folks with respect. Also, glad you created your account just to say this.
for what it's worth, i was grateful to be called out on my gender assumption. that assumption can cause widespread harm. i'm less concerned about my pronoun assumption.