> Of course a PhD is not the best decision if you are only looking at optimising your path to industry. However, during my PhD I had a fantastic time. I studied what I wanted to, I had a lot of free time to develop any skill I wanted to.
Same. And I would say that the PhD "rapidly" forced me to learn to take on large, ambiguous projects and see them from conception to completion. This was, by far, the most valuable result of the experience. Anecdotally, this seems like a rare skill, even in tech -- though it is not necessarily as recognized as it should be.
I put "rapidly" in quotes up there because if I have one piece of advice to PhD students, it's to get the hell out of grad school as soon as you can. Like the parent, I had fun exploring my interests, and it was a period of intellectual freedom that most people never get. I relish that time, but I also regret the costs. I was idealistic and unwilling to compromise my personal goals, which ended up delaying everything. If I could go back and do it over, I'd be more mercenary about finding an already successful collaborative project, contributing a little bit, and getting out. Grad school is a job -- a particularly abusive, low-reward job -- and the only goal is to finish. You get no trophies for knowing more stuff at the end, and spending time gratifying your curiosity or being a perfectionist might seem appealing ("why would I be putting myself through this if I weren't going to indulge my intellect?"), but it's ultimately a trap.
(Unfortunately, the nature of grad school is that nobody who is pre-disposed to wander aimlessly will listen to my advice, while those who understand what I'm saying probably just think I'm stating the obvious.)