The equivalent feminine expression of the same kind of dominance is a reputation war.
Reputation wars can destroy lives and relationships. If I have to choose one, I for one much prefer to deal with people winning at how awesome they are (and how lame I am) than a reputation war.
Civilized places have cracked down on violence, so male dominance contests almost never end up with a face punched anymore. Toning down the violence made them much safer.
Female dominance contests are still as deadly as they have always been.
>And it is typically more harmful for more people on average than the feminine expressions of same.
Yeah, no. This is borderline sexist. It's one thing to argue "the workplace only allows masculinity in its toxic form". It's another entirely to go "feminine better".
Nobody appreciates people who speak without knowing about what they speak!
Not to mention that any argument whose central point starts with "I would prefer..." cannot be taken seriously. Your opinions have no bearing on material realities, or, put another way, facts don't care about your feelings.