(Render founder) I'm very sorry you ran into these issues. I'll follow up with the team and get back to you over email. We obviously have work to do, but I should note that we do use Render ourselves every day (render.com and dashboard.render.com both run on Render, and so do a bunch of our internal applications).

So why haven't we fixed everything yet? Ultimately, our bandwidth is limited (but growing!) and every day is an exercise in ruthless prioritization. We haven't ignored role based access control — we just haven't gotten to it yet (as a side note, https://feedback.render.com shows things we're working on right now).

I can't provide ETAs, but I can say with full confidence we will address everything you mentioned, and more. Give us time!