So there is an issue where women's agency is actually at the forefront, where their preferences and decisions are considered paramount, and... it's an example of sexism. Does that word even mean anything anymore?

Who is the gatekeeper of sex? The woman. Who has to carry the child to term and has the option to terminate the pregnancy? The woman. Who can get a sperm donor and decide to reproduce effectively on their own? The woman. Oh why is reproduction seen as a female issue?? SEXISM!