What does this have to do with my comment? Or are you saying it should be a gift to go “some people smoke but you shouldn’t smoke because it’s breaking the rules and yes they are breaking the rules and no I can’t make them stop” is really fun. A blast.
My dad used to tell me cigarettes tasted horrible but that doctors prescribed them as punishment for poor health. Seems to have worked!
A gift? Maybe depending on how full you are seeing the glass at any given time. But perhaps OP was trying to say:
When you bring a human into the world, you are going have to explain a lot of it to them.
In this thread: people explaining kids to people with kids
The worst genre of HN comment is “single childless dude questions others’ parenting”. It’s not just this thread.