I have mentioned this a number of times here on HN, but each time I'm told by other users that it just appears that way because the topic is fresh in my mind... I don't think that's the case.
Imo the truth is much scarier: advertises know us better than we known ourselves. There's also the idea that we are so alike, advertises can generalize to great success.
I think you mean confirmation bias. Observer bias is similar, but relates to being non-blinded during a scientific study.
Baader-Meinhof phenomenon or Frequency illusion could be what we were seeking?