Hiring managers are more generous, but HR screening the resumes aren't.
At the same time, nobody is going to do all that well if they just apply online and cross their fingers. You need some kind of human contact, either though an introduction to an insider through your network, or through a recruiter of some kind. It takes a bit of time to develop the relationships, but it's quite doable and worth it, even for introverts. Best to start before you're interested in changing jobs.