The people fighting off Amazon are experimenting with non OSI approved licenses which in OSI's terms are not "open source". Elastic and Mongo's "Server Side Public License" and Redis's "Redis Source Available License" were created to stop the hyper cloud PaaS/IaaS companies from "jumping in" without being required to contribute back in some way. The additional restrictions these licenses place make them incompatible with OSI's definition of "open source".
If you release your software with a permissive or dual license (with a permissive option), then Amazon could just fork from that and go ahead and do what they want with your project under those permissive terms, like they do with ElasticSearch - AWS's ElasticSearch is a fork of the last old (7.10) version of ElasticSearch Apache 2.0 license instead of the latest (8.1,3) version of ElasticSearch.