I've never heard of men complaining about their female partners being untidy with household things except in the case where they simply do nothing (and that's rare), is that common where you are.

My father did all the washing up in our house growing up, and mum did most of the cooking, but he never once annotated me for leaving dirty dishes whilst my mother regularly would complain.

Almost every married woman I know fits the stereotype of being more houseproud than their husbands (I'm in the UK).

You call it sexist, but it seems to reflect a genuine sex-based divide.