Now, what I mean is; I made a commitment.
As Linux strains under complexity I am wondering whether to make a full-commitment life switch to BSD. But it's been 20 years with Debian and it's like a relationship I almost feel afraid to leave.
Operating systems are something I know a little bit about. After going through the whole build Minix for 68000 from AT's book, then Linux From Scratch and compiling kernels thing, and building Slackware over a whole weekend, once I matured into needing a practical operating system in my 30s I was attracted to Debian by its social contract and "wholesome family atmosphere of Debbie and Ian."
I ended up building distros myself, learning the ropes of Debian development (though I never actually joined the DD community). It's been a rodeo ride. I loathe systemd and the whole "mother knows best" Poettering schism. The CoC dramas and virtue parades in front of the neighbours are just embarrasing. And then there's Uncle Ubuntu who sometimes touches us inappropriately.
But in the end I keep coming back "to the family", because in the end all families are dysfunctional and weird, so may as well pick one and try to work with it.
So I agree with the OP's admonition of distro hopping. It feels like restless promiscuity. Whenever I need to install a new OS I pick the latest minimal Debian and go from there.