Step one: install tough nationalist leader
Step two: sell the countries natural resources cheap to US/West
Step three: invest that money wisely to grow the nation.
Only joking, you don't need strongmen to sell natural resources cheaply to foreigners, you need them for the real step three when someone points out you're getting rich selling the country's resources and the average person gets nothing.
Real step 3: authoritarian crackdown financed with western cash inflows.
Step Four: slow, then quick, collapse of the above regime during which the big power play is to threaten to stop selling the resources cheaply and jailing, killing, torturing a bunch of actual patriots.
Step five: US/West to the rescue, saving you from those naughty strongmen who sold them the resources.
China got really lucky by not having many natural resources beside their people.
Russia, Iraq, Chile etc. got totally played.