Does there become a point where the inclusive language rules starts to exclude a group of people who feel it's too much?

I've taken many different D&I trainings. I am still failing to understand the merit of these efforts. I am all for inclusivity and psychological safety, but the very nature of these tools feels exclusive in the process. People who feel psychologically safe would use the language that best describes the thing without any feelings of retaliation from others and the understanding that humans make mistakes.