I'm still using the charger I got with my 2008 (pre-unibody) MacBook Pro for my 2014 MacBook Pro, which is perfectly operational in 2021.
I'm using a Spigen 48W USB-C + USB-A charger (and a 60W, 2m Baseus USB-C to USB-C cable) to charge my Macbook Air M1 2020.
I'm using a Belkin wireless charging mat for iPhone X.
So, no.
> earphones (ensuring its wire gets dirty faster than any other)
Making rugged plastics requires a lot of nasty chemicals. Either be nasty and durable, or be less nasty and be less durable.
Also none of my Apple devices' cables have frayed (incl. a 30 pin connector cable for my now lost iPod Nano 2G). How come?
> extra storage
I think their 200G plan has good bang for the buck, and even I can't fill it up with normal usage.
> Actually it’s so opaque you don’t really know what’s “really” happening.
System preferences -> iCloud provides pretty good rundown of which application is saving what, including the ones you can't see in your drives (i.e. game saves, application stuff, whatnot).
So while Apple is not the best company out there, it's not that worse either.
P.S.: Repairability is a problem. I have nothing to say about that, but at least battery change program is very good. They've even found and changed some damaged parts in my phone, for free, when I sent it in just for a battery change.