For custom IEMs you can do this by pairing a Fostex TM2, Shure Aonic 215, or FiiO UTWS3 with your IEM. The Fostex has adaptors for 2 pin, MMCX, etc.
Did you actually look at the items? All three essentially have you completely remove the wire and attach directly via 2-pin or MMCX, so it ends up just being two ear pieces. Of course it’s no longer hot swappable to 1/8 in physical plug afterwards.