We are stuck with people having an end of the species button and are left dealing with this somehow. There are two approaches, one is to do everything to prevent accidental triggering. You put a case over it and and agree to not make any sudden movements. Arms control is about giving both sides a clear picture that the other one isnt going to use theirs. In short deescalation, making sure nobody is getting nervous because we know that nuclear holocaust would be a bad thing.
The other is to use it as a threat. In short escalation.
It is quite clearly heavily escalating with the second approach in a time where the former is absolutely necessary.
Lets not sugarcoat it, such behavior is very much in villain territory. Its risking the end of the species for short term political power plays.
edit: Differently put, i am going to go out on a limb here and argue that increasing the risk for a nuclear holocaust is a bad thing. I havent seen many people disagree here outside of some posadist circles