Traditionally, something is considered money when it can fulfil three functions:
1) Act as a medium of trade
2) Act as a store of (economic) value
3) Act as a unit of account
The last is critically important in the modern context because one of the fundamental uses of money today is to measure economic wealth/income/activity/potential. Many commodities can act as #2. Many abstractions can act as #1. Few things act as all three.