There are plenty of reasons to do and not do all of the things you listed.
I toast my peppercorns before cracking them for Thai and Vietnamese dishes or whenever I need smoke without piquancy.
I don't saute with EVOO because it's got one of the lowest smoke points. I also don't necessarily want everything I dress to taste like olive oil, and I use a range of fats for complement.
Salt, like many ingredients, takes time to distribute, so adding it at the end won't enhance a dish unless the desired flavor is "salt". Soups, stews, and meat all benefit from pre-salting. Dissolving salt in water before adding it to doughs and batters is better than adding it dry is better than baking without salt and adding it at the end. Time is key.
Garlic depends on the dish. I frequently use raw grated garlic in South American and Korean, cook it low and slow until it's sticky golden and then add fresh right off the heat for "American" Italian, or crush a clove to saute in oil and then discard for traditional Italian. I mostly agree about the herbs, but I also cook with them add more for garnish.
I've got some eclectic culinary styles and preferences by most standards, so I usually fish a little during conversation so I can taylor for my guests' tastes without making it obvious. The point is really to have a good time.