According to a Turkish friend of mine, yours is not an accurate characterization of Turkey. There are still huge problems with democracy, power of the army, corruption, media controlled by people in power, torture, Cyprus, and more. According to him many of these things are worsening -- he is afraid that Turkey is going to go further in the direction of Syria instead of the EU. Telling is the 6 month compulsory military service for all men, except gay men, who are barred from military service and are considered to have a disease in need of treatment by the minister of family affairs. Those who follow the rules (and choose safety over the risk of rape and violence) and disclose that they're gay are asked to supply photographic evidence of enjoyment of being penetrated as proof (being exclusively the active sexual partner is not considered gay). The less lucky have to undergo a rectal medical exam. Additionally on the point of censorship: gay organisations' web sites are being blocked by the government.
Despite improvements in the economy Turkey is not yet fit for joining the EU. Sadly "stuff like the acceptance of evolution" (see below) is one of the least of the concerns.