We're taking a different approach, where we teach limits on tech. TV is not inherently bad if the right content is played for the right amount of time. Phones are not inherently bad if used for the right activity for the right amount of time. Evening gaming is not inherently bad, if used for the right amount of time.
Yeah, we don't want to raise a phone zombie. But I believe you can do that without totally shielding them from tech.
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