> No, I'm not assuming any axioms.
And yet,
> I'm describing the process of observing properties of nature and then finding a formalised description of those properties.
A "formalized description of those properties" is known as a set of axioms. That's just the name for it.
If you "found something in nature" which you call the "negative numbers," what you've done is constructed something, labeled it "negative numbers", and derived axioms from its properties. It does not really matter if you come up with the construction first and derive the axioms afterwards, or if you come up with the axioms first and later derive a construction that satisfies those axioms.
If you did not take upper division mathematics, you would likely not be familiar with this equivalence.
Saying you "found something in nature" doesn't really relieve you of choice here, because there is more than one way to create a system of "integers" that contain negative integers, just like there are several different systems of natural numbers.
> Aliens would also find negative numbers in this way, but they'd call them something different (presumably).
Yes, that's exactly what I was saying when I said that this definition was "inevitable". It's so obvious and makes so much sense that there's just no reasonable chance that we'd come up with something else.
But it's not inevitable in the sense that introducing additive inverses into your system of numbers forces you to conclude that, say, negative numbers satisfy the distributive property.
> You're free to choose your own whatever other axioms for your 'negative numbers' that you want.
If you think that the actual definition of "negative number" is somehow in dispute than you definitely misunderstood the argument.