Reason: Well bla bla bla unicorn does light-weight forks. But the real fun is in "synchronized" keyword of java. You see, in java multithreading is hard, but it is a heluvalot easier than in many other languages, ruby included. If anything, we should design "Truby" which is a new languages for multi-threaded ruby. Truby will need syntax for dealing with asynchronous operations. Truby can then remove the GIL and life will be good. The problem is that you take ruby as it is and remove GIL, sure you can get away with things, rewrite libs, etc, but in the end you won't have a really good language for async programming anyways.
So yes, just use processes. Once we have a good multithreaded op model without a GIL then we can just use threads. Until then...
edit: jruby can get away without a GIL because it relies on libraries implemented in java, which have very little issue writing async code.