This quora answer actually looks like a reasonable description of the issue past physicists faced: https://www.quora.com/Why-do-electrons-in-an-atom-keep-a-dis...
So I'd guess that the reason why the antiproton's orbit decays is because its orbital energy levels are "continuous enough" that its orbital energy can decay smoothly down to zero. Maybe this is related to the fact that the electron is relatively massless compared to the antiproton.
I think it's cool that we found a state of matter where the old model of atomic orbital motion that we interpreted as a paradox might be a physically accurate description in this circumstance.
It's a bad idea to imagine them like a planet orbiting around the Sun, or that they suddenly make a turn and decide to head to the nuclei, or that they are going in spirals until they colide.
In some case, electrons can interact with the nuclei, and the nuclei absorbs them, one proton changes into a neutron and the process releases a neutrino https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Electron_capture But the electron is in a stable orbital and suddenly it interact with the nuclei.
Something similar happens with the antiproton. The antiproton is in a stable orbital and suddenly it interact with the nuclei and is annihilated.
These electron quantum rules don't work the same for an antiproton, which is 1800X more massive than an electron. There's probably some other factors, like the antiproton can get close enough to the nucleus for strong force effects etc.
In other words, it is not so much the antiproton falling to the nuclear surface as much as the antiproton finding itself at the nuclear surface.
EDIT: The context is that the antiproton was in an orbital with large principal and azimuthal quantum numbers. Still, there would be some non-zero probability of the antiproton finding itself close to the nucleus, no?
An electron won't tunnel to a location where its wavefunction amplitude is zero.
The antiproton is negative.
The protons with neutrons are collectively positive.
The orbital velocity of the antiproton is slower than that of an electron (being something like 180x more massive).
And along with above, the - and + charges attract strongly. So the antiproton orbit rapidly decays to the nucleus.
Also, its higher-orbital energy levels are very close to one another, so it is easy for it to spit out a very low-energy photon and drop to the next orbit down.
Correct me if I'm wrong though.
Instead, the difference is that the antiproton can interact with a proton and annihilate, while an electron can barely interact with a proton or neutron outside of the EM attraction.