Some of them own their homes outright. Others live with 2 other families under a single roof. Often multiple generations live in the same house whose debt was paid off by a past generation - easing the burden.
Many people making $150k and are single live with roommates until the age of 40.
It is very easy to fall off a cliff in NYC.
Or they commute two hours each way from Philly.
America does not treat it's people well.
https://fortunly.com/statistics/american-savings-statistics/...
1) NYC is not just Manhattan. The outer boroughs are also NYC and are far cheaper. Not Nashville cheap but livable. You don’t need 8 people in 3 bedrooms. You can even live in jersey.
2) A lot of NYC has affordable housing and projects. A lot of communities making the basic minimum wage or not at all can live there.
3) 110K is a absolutely doable in NYC. It’s just not doable if you live outside your means.
I understand that they don't have savings and have some credit card debt, but we're talking $50,000 per year. And this is over the median household income[0]. Are the people in the 25th percentile living 16 people in a 3 bedroom?
The OP has updated to say their mortgage is only $2,600/mo., so even after housing that leaves ~70k over what median household makes before rent. (The OP also reports having three kids, which is almost certainly a large part of that $70k.)
I suspect you don't spend a lot of time with people making $30-$70k. They exist, often have housing, and many of them even eat food. It's worth examining how they manage rather than dismissing this as an impossibility.
> Or they commute two hours each way from Philly.
Nope. NYC residents. Median household income of $63,998 (2019).
[0] https://www.census.gov/quickfacts/fact/table/newyorkcitynewy...