This.
A while ago, my wife got a call from a collections agency on my phone. They asked for her name, I asked "which one?"
She said "I can only talk to ____."
I said, "I understand but which one would are you looking for the older or younger?"
"I can't share that information."
"Then I can't put you in touch with who you're looking for if you can't tell me who you're looking for."
"I can only speak with ____."
I said "Ok, tell me the last 4 of her social and I'll know which one you're looking for."
"That's private information, sir."
"No, that's the public portion of a social security number. Tell you what, since you're learning how this works, I'll make it easy on you: I'll give you the first digit and you tell me the last. That way we both know we have the same 'protected information'. If I give you the wrong starting number or you give me the wrong ending number, we both know we have the wrong person."
"I need to speak with _____."
I gave her the starting number but she didn't budge.
I finally said "okay, since you can't verify who you're looking for, I'm going to just tell you you have the wrong number. This is my cell phone, not ____'s. You may send a letter, but this is not the correct phone number for who you're looking for. Please, do not call me again."
While all this was going on she gave me the name of the collection company which I was able to Google and determine it was a legit operation and located not too far away. A medical provider never got our correct address, but it just showed me how overly trusting some companies expect people to be. Nah, this is a two-way verification. If you're gonna call me, you need to give a little to prove to me you're legit.