As Ted points out, there are things like Fugue and Nginx which people who are not "less-that-expert-programmers" do, "experts" will be fine whether they've got magical behind the scenes async stuff going on or not. The question as I see it is - are the node.js docs/homepage misleading about how easy is is to "develop fast systems"?
(and I don't even use node)
In a classic thread-based system, it's okay if a single page takes a bit longer (e.g. >1 sec) to render if it's within your user's line of expectation.
You can't do that here because you'll block all the others.
But any decent developers knows that, so he takes the advantages Node.js offers and fixes the disadvantages that come along with it. Big deal.
Is this discussion really only about the scalability tagline? Some taglines are misleading, really?