Apple's Tim Cook raises concern over LGBTQ laws in the U.S.
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This bill basically says:
- If something happens to your kid at school parents must be informed
- Teachers can not say "Don't tell your parents." to children
- Classes shouldn't be discussing sexual content in grades K-2.
Those seem incredibly common sense!You can see House Bill 1557 here [1]
[1] https://www.flsenate.gov/Session/Bill/2022/1557/BillText/Fil...
As a non American I don’t understand your collective love of suing, what would a better recourse here be?
You're quoting it like it's an issue, but I'm not seeing one.
Teaching sexuality to young children is tantamount to abuse, in my opinion. Obviously that sentiment is not shared by everyone, but that's why it shouldn't be forced on kids without their parent's consent.
If you believe discussing sexual content to kindergarteners is acceptable then we fundamentally disagree at a moral level.
There's a lot of things in life that are not suitable for kindergartners, but are suitable and appropriate for other school age children, I believe driving trucks is one such thing in America. If your only argument against those things is "well its not appropriate for kindergarten" when the law is not only covering kindergarten, then it feels like you're confused about what this law you support says.
Maybe thats why you can't understand people's reactions to it?
It appears the bill is concerned with K through 2 and has the caveat of age and developmental appropriateness.
I don’t think it bans a teacher reading a storybook with a gay couple doing dishes together. (EDIT: never mind, it bans “discussion about sexual orientation or gender identity in primary grade levels or in a manner that is not age-appropriate or developmentally appropriate” [1].)
[1] https://m.flsenate.gov/session/bill/2022/1557/billtext/filed... 1001.42 § 8(c)(3)
If you're not allowed to talk about it at all K-2 then the next sentence would be redundant unless it applies more widely. My reading is that they want this vague ban to apply to older kids.
Just recently a person was fired for reading a silly book about buttcracks to 2nd graders. [1] I have no hope that people who seek to be offended won't be offended and use it to further spread mob justice.
[1] https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/assistant-principal-fir...
Look at the vitriol children's books like "And Tango Makes Three", a book that does zero moralizing and just tells the real life story of a mating pair of male penguins raising a chick, received.
In america, at least, this law would absolutely punish what you described.
The bill specifically only relates to primary grades, which includes kindergarten, and doesn't include older students, such as anyone of truck driving age, as you conflated.
I'm not confused. It seems totally practical. If parents disagree on the appropriateness of a topic for young children the most amenable response is to not discuss that topic in the classroom. It's a can of worms best left unopened for young kids.
Parents saying let's focus on Art, Reading, STEM skills in school is reasonable.
I only know this is what the bill says because you linked to it, so not sure if that was an elaborate double bluff or you just hadn't read it.
How is this controversial?
Are you saying parents should not have access to their child's public school records?
Why are the Florida Republicans saying that parents should not have unrestricted access to their child's public school records in their teenage years? Doesn't really seem like something they would say but you seem quite adamant on this point so I'm going to cave and accept your interpretation.
You selectively quoted from the law. From your original post: "Classes shouldn't be discussing sexual content in grades K-2." However, the actual text of the law is: "A school district may not encourage classroom discussion about sexual orientation or gender identity in primary grade levels or in a manner that is not age-appropriate or developmentally appropriate for students"
> If you believe discussing sexual content to kindergarteners is acceptable
This is a huge part of the problem - you're presuming it's just about "sexual" content when it's also about gender identity (they are not related). But the broader point you miss is that "Johnny has two daddies" is inappropriately considered "sexual" by the right-wing in America. And that is a huge issue.
Take a personal example, if you will: my husband is a teacher (and I am a man). If a similar law were to pass in our state, the law as-written would likely preclude him from mentioning anything about me at all to the students, while straight teachers would face no such limitations regarding their relationships. Because some people think any discussion of LGBT people in any capacity is inherently "sexual."
> sexual orientation: a person's identity in relation to the gender or genders to which they are sexually attracted;
Perhaps everything, even text, is a form of Rorschach test that we personally interpret.
Sexual attraction discussion just seems inappropriate for primary school regardless of orientation.
When I read the bill's text it seems to me that it's saying:
A teacher shouldn't bring up the topics of sexual orientation, regardless of that orientation, be it straight, gay, or otherwise for a classroom discussion.
Such as, "Hello class, Today we are going to discuss sexual orientation."
Discouraging that seems reasonable if parents are uncomfortable with it for their young children.
I don't think that precludes discussion of ones spouse. If questions come up then they come up. But that's different than the school district encouraging discussion about spousal relationships in a classroom setting.
Taken from the opposite angle. Would you like to have a teacher provide their personal perspective on sexual orientation? What if that teacher was homophobic?
Sexual orientation seems like a personal choice that's best just left out of the classroom entirely.
Put simply, marriage and sex are not appropriate topics for primary grade classroom discussion for many parents.
I agree that a reasonable read of these laws should be as you say - that it doesn't preclude discussion of one's spouse, or same-sex parents, etc.
The unfortunate reality that I wish people understood is that LGBTQ identities - including the existence of their spousal relationships - is often seen as inherently sexual by their very nature. Or put differently saying "my husband" is seen as sexual, but "my wife" is not. This is because straight relationships are socially normalized - leading to double standards being applied.
> If questions come up then they come up. But that's different than the school district encouraging discussion about spousal relationships in a classroom setting.
Unfortunately "classroom discussion" is often where these questions come up: kids ask questions and talk before, during and after classes. There's no clean way to draw that boundary.
> Put simply, marriage and sex are not appropriate topics for primary grade classroom discussion for many parents.
Remember: "marriage" is absolutely something that straight parents would not forbid discussion of (in any capacity) when it's about straight couples. It's a double standard.
I'm fascinated by what you mean here.
> Since same sex marriage is not inherently sexual, what's wrong with just saying "my sworn life partner and legal spouse"?
There's nothing wrong, per se, with the phrasing you outlined. The problem is the double-standard: straight couples can talk about their marriages without fear of repercussion under this law, because heterosexual relationships are normalized and not seen as inherently sexual.
However, same-sex relationships are sexualized by default in the minds of many people, and mentioning their existence (regardless of the lingo!) is tantamount to "talking about sex" in the minds of the conservative, religious right.
There aren't any specific words that are being banned in this law, despite the "don't say gay" nomenclature the media and some others use. But it is a de-facto ban on acknowledging that LGBTQ+ people and/or relationships exist; the terminology used isn't actually the issue at hand.
Well, straight couples were the first to get their affectionate relationships recognized and regulated under the law. They've been "normalized", as you say, for millennia. Same-sex marriage is still a very novel concept, only a few years old in the U.S. and most of the Western world. It's not surprising that people are confused by it. So, it's not surprising that same-sex people might have to clarify that they're talking about something (legal marriage) that is, functionally, entirely akin to sworn brotherhood.
What would you do if you saw two kindergartners playing house, either as husband and wife or with one of them referring to her imaginary husband? Would you really tell them it was "completely unacceptable" because it involves heterosexuality?
There's no reason students that age should be taught about sexuality's and gender by anyone other than their parents and I'm continually creeped out by the ever-larger contingent of teachers who _insist they must_ be able to talk to my 5 year old nephew about sex.
Unpacking the accurate phrase "some people feel they are neither and their views should be respected" for a five year old or even an eight year old is not reasonable territory for a primary school teacher whose only training on the matter is political.
> The problem is, that's science-denial, so yes, it would be inappropriate for the teacher to say that.
So - imagine that little Timmy has religious parents, and thus believes that God created the heavens and the earth in six literal days (a not-uncommon belief held in the fundamentalist Christian community). Suppose then that little Susie overhears it and asks the teacher about why her parents told her that life evolved gradually over the course of eons.
In my mind, an appropriate response could be "some people believe that the universe was created by a deity, and their views should be respected." But you've indicated that "some people believe <x> and their views should be respected" is in fact inappropriate.
What would you suggest be done, otherwise?
Here's a diagram of a few: https://i.redd.it/s44am9nqwes11.png
And that's just a narrow view of sexes through the lens of biology. Social science, anthropology, neurology, medicine, psychology, endocrinology and basically every other science that interfaces with human bodies generally agrees that sex is not binary in humans.
Once you've updated your understanding of what the science says on sex, come back and we can talk about gender, and how science agrees that gender is not only not a binary concept, it's purely a social concept.
Red hair is about 1 to 2 percent of humans. This is roughly the estimate for trans and non binary folks.
Pretty monstrous to teach kids anything other than "respect your neighbor", especially if they are very likely to encounter trans and non binary people.
Ignoring the existence of non binary folks doesn't make them not exist, any more than ignoring red heads does.
> or in a manner that is not age-appropriate or developmentally appropriate
That conditional - that "or in a manner that is not age-appropriate" means the law isn't actually just targeting 3rd grade and below. It's targeting whatever "is not age-appropriate" means, which conveniently isn't defined in the law.
It's a huge hole in the law, and absolutely leaves it open to be applied at any grade-level. And remember, "Johnny has two daddies" and nothing else is frequently termed as "sexual" by people with an axe to grind.
Case in point: in my own life, my aunt told me that she didn't want me to be around her children if I ever had a boyfriend, and that if I brought the boyfriend home to a holiday then her kids couldn't be there. Just ... existing! That's the problematic mindset that a lot of people still have, and this law gives them a huge window to attack LGBTQ+ people in schools with it.
It's fairly unusual for CEOs to get involved like this which suggests it's a bad law or the whole world has gone crazy.
I'm going to go with 'its a bad law' as my prior on this.
Or all the people briefing the CEO live in the same filter bubble and have advised them that this is a fight worth picking. Cook has kept his mouth shut on a lot of adjacent, sometimes even more egregious, issues over the past few years so I think it's a bit foolish to think that the advice these guys are getting plays no role.
I'd file "CEOs of both Apple and Disney wading into a Florida political battle about sexuality and education by mistake because they didn't bother to read the text of the law they're protesting about" under that same "world has gone crazy" heading. Luckily for us, it seems that it's just Republicans being intentionally vague in order to pass laws that wouldn't pass if they spelled out what they actually mean.
It also requires disclosing any emotional or mental health changes to parents. If a kid tells a teacher, "I've realized I'm gay, and that is making me depressed/hard to concentrate" the school needs to inform the parents. That's a huge problem in some parts of the country where being gay can result in neglect, abuse, abandonment, being sent to conversion therapy, or more subtle discrimination and outing.
You've really given this law a very surface reading, and not thought about, "how could this be used adversarially to hurt people."
(I'm about as lefty as they come, but I'm generally against gun control laws, for instance, because I believe they will be enforced in a way that hurts people.)
The word “or” in 1001.42 § 8(c)(3) [1], which bans “discussion about sexual orientation or gender identity in primary grade levels or in a manner that is not age-appropriate or developmentally appropriate,” looks problematic. (Emphasis mine.)
Nix that word and the statute is fine. With it, a teacher can’t say anything if a 2nd grader, a 7 or 8 year old, asks what it means to be gay. They can’t read a storybook about two married men or women doing dishes. That seems excessive.
[1] https://m.flsenate.gov/session/bill/2022/1557/billtext/filed... top of page 3
I would expect them to say nothing other than "ask your parents" and I don't know why anyone would think anything else makes sense.
It's difficult to focus on your job when you're being slowly legislated into a second-class citizen in much of the country. These things are on our minds constantly, and deserve discussion in our field. We, as an industry, wield enormous power in the US economy - and what we do or do not say as a field has tremendous impact on the way these events unfold.
It should be relevant for discussion here, even if it's uncomfortable for some.
How could this law be used to hurt or discriminate should be on someone's mind, just like we ask how could this API be misused.
Seeing so many reactionary comments from folks who jump in to defend them because it aligns with their (in this case, right wing) political tribe is antithetical to the rational, deep thinking nature this place usually shows.
I doubt you'd find much support that it's wrong, and there's plenty of evidence to suggest it's considered the accepted standard.