> (and rarely actual military imperialism)
What? It's entirely military imperialism. It's what everything else built upon.
> The west is generally successful at spreading it's values because people want to adopt those values.
No. It's because we forcefeed foreign populations with propaganda.
> The same is not true of more autocratic systems.
Yes, the autocrats are more honest about it. We do it in a very insidious and sneaky way.
You are just repeating the "white man's burden" propaganda. The white man needs to christianize and civilize the world. Now, it's the white man needs to spread "western values". I guess african, muslim, chinese, indian, etc values don't matter. Africans, asians, native americans, aborigines, etc didn't want to adopt christianity. It was forced upon them. Just like "western values" will be forced upon them in due time unless the world free itself from western domination.
I agree with you that imperialism isn't a solely a western tradition. The arabs, persians, chinese, indians, etc all have dabbled in it. I'm against all of it. If it was arabs, chinese, persians, indians, etc doing what you are advocating, you'd call it genocide. But somehow you twist "genocide" as something these people want done to them by us.