I found a few key things.
1. Decide you want to loose weight.
2. Up your plain flat water intake... Like a ton. Your body will get used to it after a day or two and you'll start feeling naturally thirsty. You notice all these skinny fit people are always drinking? That's plain water they are drinking. Seriously if your diet is crap at the moment if you start just drinking loads of water you will loose like half a stone cause you will stop retaining water. How to know how much to drink? I guess for the first 3 days go cold turkey on pop, coffee, literally any liquid other than plain water. If you keep a bottle with you all the time you will naturally just drink a ton.
You will piss like a racehorse of course but with good comes bad.
3. Get a food diary and write down everything that goes in your mouth. I tell you this alone will blow your mind and get you thinking a bit differently.
Try these to get you started.
Best of luck, fuck the begrudgers and let me know if this helps a bit and if you want more chats about it