After some time I found Drevo BladeMaster with CherryMx Silent Red, this was it, small, RGB backlight, media Knob. The software is kinda janky, but I was really happy with this... Then I realized I had another requirement: I prefer 75% keyboard, this is a TKL, but smaller, with the "delete, page up, page down.." keys closer to the rest of the keyboard, and still have all the Function keys. I had to sacrifice the dedicated media keys for the size, but I'm extremely happy with my Keychron K2 with Gateron Red
[1] https://www.daskeyboard.com/model-s-professional/
[2] https://www.wasdkeyboards.com/code-v3-104-key-mechanical-key...
[3] https://www.drevo.net/product/keyboard/blademaster-pro
[4] https://www.keychron.com/products/keychron-k2-wireless-mecha...