1. The fact that I grew up with those formats holds little weight for me. At this point, most of the literature I read and content I consume doesn't come from my own country. And why should it? when I have access to books, movies, websites from all over the world, and my country makes up for a tiny fraction of that. With the massification of international remote work this tendency will only increase.
2. Even when working with people from my own country, I can agree with them to use formats different from the ones we grew up with. In fact, everytime we type a floating point literal in any programming language, we do it without following the rules we grew up with.
3. In the 21st century, in the context of globalization, massification of the Internet and widespread access to computing, to keep doing these things differently by country/language makes no sense, specially when there are already good international standards that we can follow. It's not that hard to learn, either. We even accept English as the de facto language of programming and software development, and that's a full natural language that we have to spend years learning.
4. In my opinion, yyyy-mm-dd and dot as decimal separator are simply better for practical reasons. However, if we collectively decide that other formats are the "international standard" then I'd follow whatever rule we decide, as long as it's not too bad.
Can you imagine if instead of using SI units, each country used their own special units of measurement? We are definitely better off with SI, standarization makes everything so much easier. I can talk to someone from Japan about meters and kilograms and they will understand without any ambiguity.