Enthusiastically Rehiring
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I've worked at a startup where the exec team has turned over 100% multiple times. This advice would not surface that issue, it would perpetuate it.
If you are a leader, and you are having a problem with a report, you need to ask yourself first: is it them, or is it me? Emotionally hard to do.
- Is anything I'm seeing similar to a previous effort that I under-performed in?
- Do my own expectations of success make sense if I weren't me? (would a random stranger agree with my goal criteria)
- How different (currently) is the other person's expectations of success? In my current role does it make sense (for the project/customer) to try to change those?
To a large extent it's about trying to see the issue from the other person's eyes, which has two parts: try to remove your context, and try to understand their context.
Your context: it's easy to assume that someone else has the same information and motivations that you do, and understand the underlying strategy. But actually as a leader it's your responsibility to make sure all these are in place, one the one hand recruiting someone with the necessary background and motivations, and on the other making sure that they understand the strategy behind what the team needs to deliver and that the team shares and builds it knowledge. So look at all the things you are assuming - in the context of the problem - that they know or understand or are motivated by, and check whether they might be missing and what information, strategy, and incentives you might have failed to convey.
You also need to look at your own behavior from the perspective of someone who doesn't have your context. If you saw someone acting as you are, without knowing why, what would you think?
Then there is their context. They may come from a different cultural/class background. They might have different personal priorities. They may be at a different life stage. They may have less/more savings. They may need to take less/more risk. They may need different things as part of their career (for example, one boss I had assumed that 'working with famous person X' was a huge thing for me. Nope - well, it's cool and all but its not going on my CV, as an engineer. Whereas for a designer it's totally going on their CV).
All these things play into what information a person will have, what they find motivating, what they find reasonable, what understanding they will have about you and what you are saying/how you are acting.
Hmm… how am I creating this situation?
It’s a more multi-dimensional exploration.
Often, we repeat experiences because there’s something we aren’t willing to face - about ourselves or how we relate to life.
It’s quite freeing to seek that out.
Isn't that the rub overall? The whole reason that it's easier to get a raise by jumping ship than it is to stick it out?
Consider this: I hate hiring. Most managers I know do. Interviews are contrived; you are making decisions that will impact both your company and their lives; if you get it wrong, you're going to have your team impacted and letting someone go for performance or behavioral reasons are even worse.
For every person I've worked with at any given place, I can tell you within 15 seconds that, if they re-applied a few years after they left, if I would hire them back. I can tell you yes or no and the interview would only be for purposes of leveling. (How have they grown, for example?)
I can tell you based on how I felt when I found out they were leaving. If they were the wrong fit for a team or role, then you get them into a role that fits them!
Now, I have people that I would conditionally hire. There is one former coworker that comes to mind: he's brilliant in some cultures but will quickly grow frustrated in others. However, given the right culture, I would enthusiastically hire him. (And he is self-aware enough to know that he needs the right culture - if he's being called for a reference check, he's probably aligned with that culture.)
"I would rehire them in a heartbeat" = yes, "I have been trying to recruit them for months, you lucky bastard" = yes, "If the right role came up, I would certainly consider them" = no, "Uh.. yeah, I think" = no
If you're likely to see a new candidate's strengths, but the incumbent's weaknesses, then they're cooked. If the other employees have a different perception of the situation than you do, then the morale hit is assured. I have a rule of thumb, that upon firing a well-liked, or even not-disliked employee, it takes about a year for morale within their team to recover.
> I think enthusiastically is an important word in the question because it drives clarity. You can’t say maybe to that question. If there is any doubt, you have your answer.
> I would suspect that very few people would want to be at a place where their boss would not be excited about rehiring them. I sure wouldn’t.
Huh? This excludes 100% of all jobs to several significant digits. Most jobs aren't important enough that you need someone in them whose very presence brings joy to your otherwise dreary life. And almost no one is aspiring to fill their role that way.