The side of the fence that’s being bombed for no reason. Good luck justifying that.
Again. Reason is something one has in this mind. You may find no reason where a different person sees one.
No need to justify any of that, because it all sucks and is ultimately utterly pointless. It does help so, to understand the other side. Because it makes it easier to find a solution that doesn't lead to all out war between nuclear powers. And no, I don't consider just handing Ukraine to Putin to be that solution. Or Taiwan to China, as far as that is concerned.