> How do you get everyone on the same page if you cannot ask questions?
Not sure why you're asking me this. I welcome questions in standups. And if a question warrants a deeper one-on-one chat, then at least everyone knows an issue has been raised (but often someone on the team knows the answer straight away). They hardly take up time.
I suspect we have radically different experiences of standup meetings, hence the polar opposite views.
In my case (16 year old company, high functioning team), daily standups are fun - hardly a chore - and you'd be surprised what surfaces in these team meetings (that wouldn't necessarily come to light if we were to simply rely on team members to speak up only "when there was something to talk about").
Just to be clear, I'm not criticising your lived experience. I don't doubt you for a second.
But let's be fair - it really depends on the team, and the environment, and the desire for daily standups to begin with.
It's a bit like project management tools. If abused, or used solely for the sake of ticking boxes, they're annoying. But if used correctly, and everyone is happy using them, then they certainly add value.
I suppose it's highly anecdotal.