No, of course I have a tiered architecture. HDDs + SSDs + RAM. By mmap-ing the file, the Linux kernel will make sure that whatever data I access is in RAM and it'll do best-effort pre-reading and caching, which works very well.
BTW, this is precisely how "real databases" also handle their storage IO internally. So all of the performance cost I have to pay here, they have to pay, too.
But the key difference is that with a regular database and indices, the database needs to be able to handle read and write loads, which leads to all sorts of undesirable trade-offs for their indices. I can use a mathematically perfect index if I split dataset generation off of dataset hosting.
It's really quite difficult to explain, so I'll just redirect you to the algorithms. A regular database will typically use a B-tree index, which is O(log(N)). I'm using a direct hash bucket look-up, which is O(1).
For a mental model, you can think of "mmap" as "all the results are already in RAM, you just need to read the correct variable". There is no network connection, no SQL parsing, no query planning, no index scan, no data retrieval. All those steps would just consume unnecessary RAM bandwidth and CPU usage. So where a proper DB needs 1000+ CPU cycles, I might get away with just 1.