Just because it's obvious to many that you need therapy doesn't mean that any who notice are capable or willing to give it.
I’ve been getting therapy since way before that happened, most people could probably benefit from a little mental health checkup now and again.
What did I do to get your knickers so twisted that you’re banging on a recently-bereaved guy with thus far zero productive suggestions?
In that comment you were the person who sent things in a better direction. No sarcasm whatsoever: my regards friend.