Discord is snappy? Is this the level of desktop applications in 2022? :P
And you can blame all the fuckers who ran to Slack and VSCode, for it. Once electron became "acceptable in polite society", it was all over.
Personally I have to quit Discord to keep myself from getting distracted, so it’s way worse when you have to wait so long just to reply to a notification.
The average user does not have a gaming or workstation CPU.