Frankly, I think depending on other people is a liability. I can't count on my hands how many times I've had to explain to people that you don't give an unconsious diabetic insulin, you call an ambulance and follow the instructions you're given. I just don't trust the average person enough to burden them with the responsibility.
The only people I would trust to look after my unconsious body during a severe hypo are medical professionals - and there are medical professionals that I still wouldn't trust!
Yes, the maths is unavoidable. Diabetes burnout is real. But if you've it had for nearly 3 decades, like I have, then you learn coping strategies. My advice is to spend some time finding a specialist who listens and answers questions. Use the devices available to you and learn them well. Don't make changes to your insulin regimen when you're angry or hypo. Most importantly, don't strive for unattainable perfection.
Sure I bounced back and got a CGM, but only because I could afford one. I was terrified of going to sleep at night without a handful of alarms set to wake me.
Here's the instruction to the people I know I will be spending longer stretches of time with: When I look very tired, disoriented, or talk incoherently: fetch orange juice or some other sugary drink. Make sure I drink it. When you find me unconscious: roll me on the side, call an ambulance. You can put sugar under my tongue but do keep watching me. If you feel confident, apply the syringe from the orange box in the fridge.
Thankfully, none of this has played out so far. Except that I had to rely on friends a few times when my sugar ran out. That's already plenty scary.
Isn't that the case even if you have someone sleeping beside you? I suppose it mitigate some risk on the off chance that your partner wakes up and notices you're sweating or whatever, but what if they're sound asleep? Does someone who's high/low on blood sugar exhibit symptoms that are easily picked up by a sleeping person?
Most diabetics have CGMs these days, though, and somebody like that should be setting hypo / hyper alarms so that either them or their partner wakes up.
(The problem there becomes false alarms and the subsequent alarm fatigue that results in you turning them all off.)
CGMs are available over-the-counter, just like finger stick machines, in a variety of countries like Canada and Ireland. But in the United States a prescription is required for any CGM even if insurance doesn't pay for it and insurance generally only pays for it once you are actively on full-time insulin treatment, so type-2 diabetics can't avail of insurance to reduce the cost of potentially not needing to go on recurring insulin by getting a handle on being pre-diabetic. (Plus many doctors won't write a CGM Rx for someone who isn't type-1 or very symptomatic type-2. This has resulted in nutritionist businesses springing up whose purpose is to turn a credit card charge into a prescription for a CGM.)
But of course different countries have different regulatory systems, we all know that. This is to say that even when you find a system and method that has worked for others in your online community, that method might not be available to you, and it causes even more stress to have the idea, right or wrong, that a useful tool is just out of your grasp. And carbohydrates help you if you dare move between countries.
Only for under 21s, and only recently. Once you hit 21, the rug is pulled out from under you.
https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/edmonton/glucose-monitoring-d...
Here in Europe we can simply get them from Abbot/Dexcom an ship them.
I can't make any promises, but I'm positive that I'll be able to develop a product that takes care of finding the correct insulin doses when giving activity and CGM data + meal information withing the next year's.
Granted this was 4 years ago, so I'm unsure how things have changed. The CGM is a game changer. I wish I had had it earlier. Would have kept me (hopefully) from a lot of issues and putting my friends and family through unnecessary pain.
My wife has a Tandem T:Slim and Dexcom G6 and she can't turn off the urgent low alarm. The alarms drive her totally crazy.
Though I'm happy to know at least the system will disable her basal rate if she's heading low.