The thing you're struggling with is the parent's humility.
Value: be great at everything all the time
Parent: I try very hard but often fail
You: then you must be dishonest about your values
Humility is a virtue not a vice.
Value: be great at everything all the time
Parent: I try very hard but often fail
You: then you must be dishonest about your values
Humility is a virtue not a vice.
Hum, no, but then he is talking about the "aspirational values" that the GP pointed.