"Descriptive" vs "aspirational" values, if you will.
"Descriptive" vs "aspirational" values, if you will.
I want to be a good husband, dedicated employee, etc. Am I? I’d like to think more often than not. But we all err, and I value the transparency/courage to ack that we are not perfect on our values and still have a long way to go.
For me the a flag would be if a person/company is not willing to acknowledge they are not as good as they public values are. (Because how can they improve if they can’t even ack it).
Because there's nothing on that comment that actually supports the difference. And if you are being honest, descriptive values should describe your behavior very closely.
Value: be great at everything all the time
Parent: I try very hard but often fail
You: then you must be dishonest about your values
Humility is a virtue not a vice.
Hum, no, but then he is talking about the "aspirational values" that the GP pointed.
* The actual values have changed over time but the value statement hadn't been updated in a while
* Different parts of the company genuinely have different values
I don't think either of those necessarily indicate a toxic culture.
Though both explanations may also point to something:
* If values changed, but company did not bother to communicate them, then they are not important and not applied in daily life. This is not necessarily a bad thing at the moment of observation, but it may lay a foundation to toxic culture eventually.
* If different parts of the company have different values, then the decisions where those values would have been applied may result in a conflict between those parts. Red flag.
I’m not sure i could ask smart and direct enough questions to really assess this but hope i can at least sniff out the bs.