Why introverts excelled at working from home
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I don't say hey... Dudes introverted like me! I relate!
Instead I see a small, insecure person that can't understand people are different.
Because people like a different level of social connection doesn't mean they're miserable or that you are their unpaid therapist.
You sound like a scifi geek who's still grumbling at 30 years old that your dad made you try out for the football team when you were 13.
Extroverts are not uber or lesser, they are not even different, they are just people. My social obligation to my work colleagues ends at remembering their names! I do not even care if they are intro or extroverts.
But most of us try to work on those aspects of ourselves rather than own it and just be an aggressive prick to others..
But professionally speaking - I'm just happier at home.
- I jog in the AM rather than sit in traffic. - I eat healthy lunches. Sometimes I sauna during my break (nearby). I've used my lunch break for spots of yard work or scheduling a repair man to come by. - I eat dinner on time (before 6pm) - I see more of my kid when he's off school. And he does t have to go to a daycare the 1.5 hours he's home that I'm still working - I get to listen to my records every day. No headphones.
I can get little chores done when stuck on teams call that doesn't really apply to me but I'm expected to be there. Dishes, put away laundry, etc..
I have also noticed that extrovert managers hate it when you ask them to send an email. Their strategy is to talk and then when it suits them deny what they had said. Since you don't have it in writing, it is your word against theirs and they are the boss, so they insist that you are mistaken.
If thyroid cancer is what it took to get me out of what he turned into a hellhole, then I’ll take it.
We know we are really bad at tracking knowledge work productivity but we will make up narratives based off bad data.
I imagine the real story is that the productive people are just as but not more productive at home vs the office and the slackers are walking their dog more instead of walking around the office.
"Office slackers waste time in different ways working from home, everything else basically the same"
Now it's time for the leaders to recognize that those who get shit done should be rewarded equally for it. Everyone has experienced this new world of working and seen first hand who these unsung heroes are keeping the lights on, and they aren't the loudest in the room taking credit for everyone else's work.