> i also think it's like freedom of speech, in theory it sounds great but in reality you end up with nazis walking around if you don't have the ability to deter them.
I mean this in the most gentle and sincere way: This is just fascism of a different color.
When you support the curtailing of freedom of speech, then you enter into a slippery slope where it's possible that new regimes can use that power against you.
In all but the rarest cases where people are harassed and driven to commit suicide [1], hurtful words are just words. Sticks and stones can break your bones, but words can never hurt you.
If you eliminated all of racism, sexism, and anti-LGBT feelings from the world tomorrow, you would still run into people that dislike you. That's just how people are. We're evolved apes, and a lot of us make in-group/out-group decisions on the most trivial lines. Class, style, designer clothing, attractiveness, rivalry, sports teams, school, etc., etc., etc.
No matter how many layers of protection you put on, you will always run into hate and unpleasantness.
You can't remove one of the most liberating and important features of our democracy - one that anticipates all types of futures and stands against any of their possible tyrannies - just to not have hurt feelings. That would be the mother of all bad trades.
When things get physical, there are laws to protect you. Even hate crime laws that escalate punishments. These are adequate protections.
Your brain is going to have to learn how to dust off the hurt. That's what makes us rugged, fierce, and independent.
I've been called a "f*ggot", bastard (it's true), short, ugly, and many worse, entirely hurtful things throughout my life. I'd like to think I'm doing alright despite it.
[1] Restraining orders and other legal protections for people being abused and bullied, especially online, need to be further developed. That said, there isn't a fine line between what politicians such as Ted Cruz face on a daily basis from Twitter and what pushes individuals such as Near to commit suicide.