That classic ORMs are kinda slow is probably not a surprise to anyone, the others which either get to compile the full query or have a hand in controlling the schema are more interesting.
They also seem more similar to your product, running as a server and managing the schema, so most worth comparing.
Edit: The fact that "Raw SQL" ends up being a suboptimal query because of the node driver limitations, which then gives you "Way faster than even raw SQL!!!" graphs also leaves a weird taste. I guess if you are comparing programming language level solutions fair enough.