> Sure - that's why Signal is for secure communication between individuals who have some level of trust.
If I have this level of trust with someone they are about at level of adding them as a friend on Facebook. Who knows, I even might invite them on Facebook sooner than I decide to give them my phone number.
> what's the big issue with them having your number?
Seriously? With my number you can harass me endlessly with phonecalls, text messagers, registering for various services that will harass me basically forcing me to abandon this phone number and notify all of my valuable contacts of the number change.
Hell, they might even plaster town with my number with advert saying "Win 50$ in Chewbaca noise contest by subitting your best attempt at that number." as one creative asshole did to some poor girl.
> There's nothing stopping your interlocutor from leaking all of the messages you send to them
That way less of a problem if I haven't doxed myself in those conversations. All he will publish is some conversations he had with someone.