I get that affine schemes are somehow the "geometric" dual of a commutative ring. A motivating example is Spec(R[X,Y]/(X^2 + Y^2 - 1)), which is simple enough as a ring (if you remove the "Spec"), but as an affine scheme it is a circle. The slash is almost acting like a subset formation operation. I know enough category theory to see that the reason why the slash is acting that way is because equalisers are the dual construction to coequalisers; the slash (ring quotienting) is a coequaliser, and in the category of affine schemes it becomes an equaliser, and equalisers on "spaces" are supposed to form subsets somehow. Another example is the ring R[X]/(X^2), sometimes called the dual numbers, whose affine scheme (or Spec) is a lot like an infinitely small line segment. The fact that the affine scheme behaves like an infinitely small region of space is dual to the algebraic fact that the dual numbers are a local ring.
Finally, I have a vague understanding that a scheme is the result of gluing some affine schemes together. Sheaf stuff is involved.
Anyway, the above summarises my understanding of schemes. I don't know any differential geometry as such. I rely a lot on naive, and sometimes not wholly rigorous intuition. I have no idea how you compute with this, especially given how elaborate the definitions are.
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I'm hoping this might present a shortcut for someone like me: https://www.ingo-blechschmidt.eu/research.html It's especially promising because the computations look more familiar to me.