I would love to switch to a fully open environment once it's available, but I think you're overstating the trouble with running LineageOS or other non-spyware ROMs.
Reasons to favour custom ROMs over Linux phones as a daily driver, at the moment:
- You get to pick between dozens of recent devices, many with flagship specs. (Note that the "official" device list only refers to the ones the core team approved, there are many more that stay "unofficial" for a year or more before getting accepted, but still work quite fine.) Other ROMs like Graphene are more limited, but an old Pixel is still way more powerful than a Pinephone.
- Basically everything that a mainstream Android can do works fine on custom ROMs. Exceptions tend to be big tech stuff like Google Pay which you probably don't want anyway if you're into privacy, or occasional bugs with specific models (under-screen fingerprint readers are a common one)
- As an actual consideration, the security model of Android is actually IMO miles ahead of Linux (assuming the mobile version copied the desktop in that regard). Apps are strongly sandboxed by default and there are plenty of tools to exert even more control, eg TrackerControl or Netguard to firewall them by domain, or Island/Insular to basically chroot them. On desktop OSes, including most Linux distro
s, user apps have e.g. access to all of the user's files by default, which would be terrifying in the context of a phone.
(I imagine you already know most of that, I'm just laying out my reasoning for the same target audience as the OP's 'just install Termux' comment)