* You’ll want to live close to a grocery store.
* You’ll want to live close to doctors —- not only hospitals and ambulances but also any specialist you or someone in your family mind need.
* You’ll want access to tradesmen/craftsmen. Plumbers, auto mechanics, carpenters, electricians. Things break, can you fix everything?
* You’ll want some degree of liquidity in your property. Selling a house in a town is way easier than selling a house 50 miles from the nearest town.
Perhaps the modern world has made things appear otherwise but even the most average adult has the capability to do basic vehicle maintenance, plumbing, simple electrical work, basic carpentry and so on. In fact even if you do live in an urban area you might be in for a a bit of regret not learning those skills when you call for a contractor or electrician but no one is available for months due to the ongoing labor shortage.
> basic vehicle maintenance, plumbing, simple electrical work, basic carpentry and so on
There’s a big gap between simple electrical work, basic plumbing, basic carpentry etc and the full range of issues that can go wrong with a house. At the first sign of a natural gas leak, or any electrical tasks involving high voltages I’m calling a professional.
Doctors, etc. - why do you need to be close? 1-2 hr drive for something so infrequent does not seem to be an issue.
You learn to fix your own stuff.
At least during the pandemic, housing outside of city centers have been in high demand as people seek more land/space.
That's just us. You may be different.
I think my ideal spot is 10 or 20 acres in the mountains and a small cabin. It would be a place only a couple of hours away from my main home. I'd be able to pack a big cooler and get away for the weekend. Somewhere I can go do my hobbies and maybe pickup a few more. Because I'm not living there constantly, I don't need luxuries like nearby grocery stores or even gigabit internet.