I don't do chat or anything synchronous like that because it doesn't fit into the way my free time is sliced into small chunks by family commitments.
I don't do chat or anything synchronous like that because it doesn't fit into the way my free time is sliced into small chunks by family commitments.
My only complaint about reddit is more about how some of the smaller hobby based subs just turn in to mini instagram's about the new gear someone got, or just random content with no discussion. My favorites are the ones where the comments are filled with discussions about techniques, how OP accomplished something, etc... /r/leatherworking was/is a great example.
Regarding the "toxic wastelands" - while there are plenty of those - my main pet peeve with subreddit growth is just the lower standards and decline in quality.
A book/game subreddit with interesting discussions about themes, characters and plot changes into endless "look at this <blanket|cake|...> my <relative> made me for <holiday>".
Technical subreddits go from low volume, high quality original projects to "hey look I just bought an arduino and blinked a led".
Maybe I'm just a grumpy old fart but save that stuff for your Facebook wall. This can probably be fixed with strong moderation, but I've rarely seen that work.
I think that's just regression to the mean and inevitable as any community grows.
For any small community to get traction, it must be particularly compelling to rise above network effects of existing entrenched communities. Small mediocre communities simply disappear. So every small community that grows starts out better than average.
But as the community grows it attracts a wider range of members. The aggregation algorithms that determine what threads show up then optimize for lowest common denominator content that appeals to that wider demographic. And the members themselves, just by virtue of statistics, on aggregate end up less interesting or engaging than the small core that were so much better than average that they got the community off the ground.
It makes me a little sad when communities get watered down as they grow, but I accept it as a natural side effect of growth and not some sort of moral failure of its participants.
I do sometimes fantasize about trying to build some sort of social media thing that deliberately puts an upper limit on community sizes to see how that would effect quality.
Some of my personal favorite subreddits based on interests:
https://www.reddit.com/r/programming
https://www.reddit.com/r/startups
https://www.reddit.com/r/dataisbeautiful
https://www.reddit.com/r/Aquariums
https://www.reddit.com/r/cyberDeck
https://www.reddit.com/r/functionalprint
https://www.reddit.com/r/MechanicalKeyboards
https://www.reddit.com/r/onewheel
https://www.reddit.com/r/ElectricScooters
https://www.reddit.com/r/mechanicalpencils
https://www.reddit.com/r/fountainpens
https://www.reddit.com/r/mechanicalheadpens
Seriously, the quality of the subreddit is directly tied to the quality of the mods. I was a mod on my old hometown's subreddit, and it was a daily slog of removing shitposts, political content, and conspiracy theories. The end result was a relatively clean and useful subreddit.
Additionally, I'd recommend using an app like Apollo instead of the official Reddit app. It's just a better experience overall.
My reddit homepage while logged in is COMPLETELY different from what it is while logged out. And I use multiple accounts to group interests/homepages and retain some anonymity.
I also use old.reddit.com because the new (or maybe not-so-new but newER) site is still so f***ing annoying.