there's about $20b worth of eth in the weth contract. $1.1m of eth has been lost this way (so op's lost weth is about 45% of all weth lost from transfers). https://etherscan.io/address/0xc02aaa39b223fe8d0a0e5c4f27ead...
most users never have to deal with the WETH contract because defi platforms will automatically do the wrapping/unwrapping for you.
the vast majority of the WETH minted by this contract is used for
a) providing liquidity on DEXs (where ~ 50% tokenA and 50% tokenB are deposited to collect trading fees)
b) collateral in a lending platform (e.g. deposit WETH and borrow USDC)
c) bridged to another chain (e.g. bridge WETH to Avalanche or Solana or whatever)